Teen Finds Hope and Healing Through Martial Arts
A 16-year-old girl overcame loneliness and harmful habits by joining a muay thai program in Singapore.
Kelly's troubles began when she was very young. Her parents would have loud, angry fights at home. Her mother would threaten to leave and go back to Thailand when she was upset. Kelly was an only child and had no brothers or sisters to talk to.
Kelly felt very lonely and scared. She did not know who to talk to about her problems. She kept all her feelings inside and did not tell anyone what was happening. At school, she was quiet and shy.
When Kelly was in fifth grade, she found posts online about self-harm. This means hurting yourself on purpose. She started doing this once a week. When people asked about marks on her arms, she would lie and say a cat had scratched her.
Unfortunately, talking to the school counselor made things worse for Kelly. The counselor told her teacher and parents about what Kelly was doing. Her teacher said these things should not happen at their Christian school. Her mother was upset and asked why Kelly was causing problems.
Kelly felt sad and confused after this experience. She went online to find people who understood her problems. She found groups on websites like Reddit and Twitter where people talked about similar struggles. Being part of these online groups led Kelly to try more dangerous ways of hurting herself.
In February 2026, Kelly took her first muay thai class. Muay thai is a type of martial arts that uses punches, kicks, and knee strikes. Kelly loved it right away and has been doing it ever since. For three months, she traveled from her school to training sessions that lasted one to two hours.
The physical pain takes away from the mental pain.
Comprehension quiz preview
1. How old was Kelly when she first started hurting herself?
2. What does 'self-harm' mean in this article?
3. Why do you think Kelly started hurting herself when her parents fought?